1. qali pirvel nabijs ar unda dgamdes. idealurma qalma mamakacis gasacnobad iniciativa ar unda gamoichinos, radgan mamakaci qvecnobierad monadirea da tviton ocnebobs qalis monadirebaze.

2. idealurma qalma unda icodes rogor mouaros tavs, unda hqondes sakutari stili, iyos xalisiani, sheedzlos tkboba tundac patar-patara cxovrebiseuli siketeebit, rogoricaa parkshi gasaeirneba, mziani dghe, an, tundac, gemrieli deserti.

3. is mteli tavisi cxovrebis miznad ar unda isaxavdes saqmros dzebnas. tavis cxovrebas ar unda afasebdes imis mixedvit, tu ramdenad sarfianad gatxovdeba. ar unda elodos arachveulebriv, idealur princs cxovrebis dasawyebad da zemodan ar unda uyurebdes "chveulebriv mokvdav mamakacebs".

4. idealur qals unda sheedzlos mamakacs amaghlebulad agrdznobinos tavi: icinos mis xumrobebze, eubnebobes mas komplimentebs da brwyinavdes mis cxovrebashi yvelaze mnishvnelovan momentebshi (am shemtxvevashi, mamakacic igives gaaketebs mistvis).

5. qali ar unda edzalebodes mamakacs, radgan es ukanaskneli ver itans dadzalebas da tavisuflebis shezghudvas. ar ghirs dgheshi ramdenjerme darekva da ucodveli kitxvis dasma - "sad xar?". momaval tanacxovrebaze shekitxvebic gamaghizianebelia mistvis. mas ar siamovnebs angarishebis chabareba da gawerili gegmis mixedvit moqmedeba. mamakacebi shemtxvevitobas aniwheben upiratesobas.

6. qali unda iyos seqsualuri, magram zedmetobebis gareshe, tumca es koncefcia urtiertobis ganvitarebastan ertad icvleba. nacnobobis dasawyisshi man tavi unda aaridos seqsualur komentarebs da dzalian gamomwvevad moqcevas, magram roca urtiertoba ufro seriozuli xdeba - siyvarulis ufro intimuri gamoxatva ukve srulebit misaghebia.

7. qals unda sheedzlos intimuri urtiertobisatvis swori dro shearchios. zogjer isini ver acnobiereben, rom dzalian swrafad gadasvla seqsze, gavlenas iqoniebs urtiertobis shemdgom ganvitarebaze. am shemtxvevashi aris sashishroeba, rom urtiertoba seqsis gareshe aghar ganvitardes.

8. namdvili qali ar unda itmendes umsgavso saqciels. mamakacebi iset qals afaseben, romelmac sakutari tavis fasi icis. tu is shedzlebs, mamakacs chxubisa da dadzalebis gareshe agrdznobinos, rom misi ghalati miughebelia, mamakaci metad daafasebs am qals. is pativs unda scemdes garkveul principebs.

9. saocnebo qali yuradghebiani unda iyos, magram zomierad. is unda achendes patar-patara yuradghebis gamomxatvel nishnebs, romlebic mamakacs agrdznobineben, ramdenad mnishvnelovania mistvis. unda axsovdes ra uyvars mis mamakacs (sayvareli kerdzi, musika, tu sxva rame), ra swhirdeba, ras ver itans da ra awuxebs.

10. namdvil qals unda sheedzlos airchios ghirseuli mamakaci - seriozuli da saimedo, romelsac sheudzia mastan patiosani da guwrfeli iyos. mastan unda akavshirebdes saerto shexedulebebi cxovrebaze, ganatlebaze, kulturaze, garda amisa, dzalian mnishvnelovania ertnairi damokidebuleba fultan mimartebashi (amis gamo wyvilebi yvelaze xshirad chxuboben). bevri fiqrobs rom gansxvavebuli adamianebi ertmanets izidaven, magram sanam mflangvel adamians daukavshireb cxovrebas, kargad dafiqreba sjobs.

11. qali idumali, gamoucnobi, yoveltvis saintereso da damaintrigebeli unda iyos. misi xasiatisa da garegnobis cvlileba izidavs da aghagznebs mamakacs.

12. da bolos, idealur qals sheudzlia namdvili siyvarulit uyvardes

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